When you first started going out with your significant other the sparks were flying and you pretty much couldn’t keep your hands off each other. You would have to make excuses to your friends about why they don’t see you anymore and it’s because you’re busy having sex with your loved one. Time changes things. We all know that an active sex life is important for a healthy long-term relationship or marriage. But everyone has those times where we’ve been like the complete opposite of the early stages. It happens in many relationships, and like anything else long-term and real, that fluctuation will happen from time to time.